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Life with young children can be challenging, but with the support and advice of friends, we can feel empowered and thankful for the blessing of being a Mom.

My musings are those of a self-proclaimed attachment-parenting Tiger mom, who juggles full-time mommying with a small (but growing!) baby-related business. I hope some of my thoughts help you
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Wednesday, March 9, 2011

More Forums?

As I mentioned in a recent blog, our private school hosted a discussion recently, which took place largely in response to Amy Chua’s controversial book Battle Hymn of the Tiger Mother, where Chua’s parenting style both fascinates and disturbs many readers. In attendance were mothers of a variety of styles and backgrounds, representing large and small families, more and less religious families, and families from across the county.

The discussion flowed smoothly and openly, in a supportive and non-judgmental fashion, and it touched on a variety of key topics. While different labels were mentioned, few associated openly with a particular label, and most of the discussion focused on how to best support and challenge one’s children. Of particular note: the idea of choosing a path for children, what to do when life/children stray from that path, and how firm or flexible to be as a parent. The moderators were supportive and informed, establishing a light and caring atmosphere. As our world becomes increasingly private, many of us feel alone and/or overwhelmed at home, sometimes questioning our role, our tactics, and our paths as caregivers. This workshop helped lead the way to greater support and sharing of ideas, so that we can be stronger and more fulfilled as parents.

If you are at all involved in your schools (which you should be!), I encourage you to request that they hold similar discussions. These forums are incredibly empowering and essential to feeling less alone and more connected with other parents. Sharing wisdom is essential to successful parenting.

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